Sunday, December 6, 2009

getting rid of something

Cleaning out things in your life that just sit there and are never used is like losing weight. You dont know how good it feels till you get rid of it. Things that people have given you over your life seem very hard to send on to a new place. Old habits are hard to give up as well as old ways of thinking.
It is a always easier to not grow than to grow.
Growing needs space and pain and support to happen.
I just got back from a four day juice fast at Soap Lake with my friend. I could not have done it without her doing it too. Company makes pain and will power all the easier.
It is also easier to have courage if you are not alone,
Sometimes it takes courage to throw old things out because we think something bad will happen. We think what if the person who gave this to me comes over someday and it is not here and you will be embarrassed.
This is actually extremely funny because people usually forget what they gave you and if they do remember giving someone something they should feel worse if you were keeping it just to please them.
If somebody does care about it then they need to learn to give with no strings attached. You are helping them learn that .
Get rid of anything that is not bringing you to a better place.

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